Consensual Blackmail FAIL!

After doing some reading on online financial domination and blackmail fetish, I contacted someone from my past to discuss those ideas.

I had an inkling he was into those things and I wanted to pick his brain.



 

Financial Domination: A Pricey Fetish

I have been studying the hits that I get from visitors. I do get a lot for my financial domination post. I guess there are a lot of men (I am assuming those who visit my blog are men since I use the term Domme) who get aroused by the idea of losing control over money.

I was never really into financial domination but I did require tributes on a monthly basis. I only asked for a small amount as a token of submission from the subs I dominated online. The best way for me to know THEN if a sub is serious is if he does as he is required:

The Next BBW Asian Domme

This girl is a tough cookie!

Presenting the next BBW Asian Domme!

Sweet and pleasant but will break you if you mess with her.

Orgasm Denial: Torture!

This is a really FUN way to control and deny a man of his orgasms.

Professional Asian Domme/Mistress

For those who are not into serving or giving up control, or even keeping in contact with an Asian Domme/Mistress, they should get the services of a pro domme. Paying someone to dominate you ain't so bad especially if you think you're too busy or too important to even say hello to a lifestyle Domme.

Are you slave, submissive or bottom?

I have found some interesting definition of these "labels". There's nothing wrong with labels. These labels are meant to help us discover who and what we are.

These are from the Submissive Guide:

This is How I Feel Now...

Yeah, I'm horny.

Problem is I can't do anything about it. I just got my period and I don't think there's anyone out there who is willing to dive into a bloody pussy.

Mistress Piggy

I love this!!!! Miss Piggy abusing Kermit! Another femdom artwork.

My favorite is Kermit licking Miss Piggy's ass.

My Fantasy...

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/556757572653570831/

Facesitting, Smothering, Rimming

Facesitting, smothering and rimming: punishment or reward?

Facesitting While Working

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Orgasm Control and Power

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Cold Asian Domme was Queen for a Day

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Foot Worship, Body Worship

Trampy confirmed to me that foot worship is part of body worship. The sub I met recently did kiss my feet and legs. It was sensual.

I was going through Scurrilous's blog and I saw his post on Namio. I did leave a comment but at that time but after experiencing the pleasure of having my feet and legs worshiped, the picture now resonates to me.

www.artbreak.com/namioharukawa/works

I hope the same sub would be able to do this again. I would love for him to lick my legs and take a picture of it so I'd have a memento.

Cold Asian Domme wants her fat body worshiped!

One More Ass I Owned

This sub who served me over the weekend, he is the macho guy who won't let a man touch him. I did bring him a surprise, my handy dandy flesh colored strap on. He was speechless for a few minutes and was staring blankly at nothing, he was in a daze.

I asked him why he was quiet, he said that my cock was big. I think he was thinking how to say no to me without me getting pissed. Of course, there's no way of saying no to me without me getting pissed LOL.

Foot Worship

In spite of all the "problems" encountered, I'd like to say I had a very good weekend.

I won't discuss all the details in one post, I'll add more information over the days but I'll start with one discovery.

I do enjoy having a foot massage. I think the right kind of massage relaxes not only my feet but also my legs.

I've had a few subs massage and kiss my feet but recently, I had someone kiss not just my feet but my entire legs. It felt really good. It was so good that I got turned on.

The kisses were very tender and not wet. They were light so they were sensual. He also massaged my feet, the pressure he put on my feet was just right.

I think I have nice feet. They could be nicer but they don't have bunions or hard callouses. My legs are naturally hairless.

I didn't get a chance to take a picture of him kissing my feet so I'll just post a picture of my feet. I'm wearing stilettos and have red toe nails.

Can kissing the legs and feet be considered a form of body worship? He did a good job of worshiping my feet and legs through his kisses and massage. I probably would want more.

Discovery Channel's Forbidden - BDSM

I stumbled upon this show a few days ago.

It's quite entertaining and informative.  Is it really a common misconception that masochists get turned on by any kind of pain? Like what the girl in the video said, when she stubs her toe, she feels pain. I wonder if people think that she gets turned on by it?

Spanking, for some reason I like the idea of spanking someone till his bottom turns red. I remember years ago I came across the blog of a guy who enjoys getting spanked. If I'm not mistaken, his blog's name is "The blog of a reddened bottom." The name of the blog was so amusing that it got stuck in my head.

I can't find the entire video. Maybe someone can find it for me and give me the link?

Dual Lives Of Everyday People Who Are Into BDSM Revealed

In case you haven't seen this yet, allow me to share the post:

Forest McMullin has spent a significant portion of his photography career snapping photos of what he calls "fringe social groups." With his camera, he offers an intimate glance into the lives of everyone from incarcerated men in New York to members of religious supremacist groups in Pennsylvania, highlighting -- with a documentary lens -- some often unseen fragments of American culture. Such is the case in his series "Day & Night." In it, the Atlanta-based photographer captures portraits of men and women who live dual lives. During the day, they are mothers and businessmen in the South who lead "normal" lives -- or, at least, publicly acceptable lives that conform to constructed social norms. At night, however, McMullin's subjects are committed advocates of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism). They are swingers, dominatrixes, and dungeon masters who break through sexual taboos with pleasure.

I think the photos are cool:

Would you want kinksters and fetishists to go mainstream? I mean let everyone know what you do in the bedroom or whatever is private to you.

Read the rest of the story here.

Trampling Clips

Those who are interested to see trampling clips, visit this site:

http://tube.proterendos.com/

I don't know if I can trample on a sub, I would be worried I might crush him to death. LOL.

50 Shades of Duh!

I have Facebook friends gush over the trailer of 50 Shades of Grey.

If they think they are cool and kinky, they're not. Typical Filipino to want to be IN, to try hard to appear cool to others.

Duhh...

Eat Me Or Else!

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Vanilla Cunnilingus

Someone is interested to service me orally but in a vanilla setting.

I'm concerned that he will want me to reciprocate. My ad says I will not reciprocate but he seemed to have forgotten and started talking about sexual stuff.

Ugh!

I had to remind him of my ad.

Anyway, I found a really cute femdom art by ScareGlow.


SSBBW Dominatrix by ScareGlow on deviantART Although it's just a cartoon, to me this is a real depiction of a BBW Dominatrix. Most images of BBWs have big boobs, small waist, big ass but in reality, big women are big all over.

Anal Tattoo

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Tats on Balls

I'm trying to find some inspiration to write continue writing on strange orgasm experience/s. Maybe next month....

In the meantime, have fun watching this:

   

I wonder if there's anyone who has had his anus tattooed.  That would be interesting!

Expecting a Hot Asian Dominatrix?

I've encountered a number of Caucasian "slaves" or "subs" who have this idea that Asian Dommes look kinda like Lucy Liu.

Lucy Liu the Dominatrix on Charlie's Angels

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I will not lie, what Asian Dominatrix wouldn't want to look like Lucy Liu? She was hot in the Charlie's Angel's movie.

For those of you who are wondering how I look, let me describe myself.

I'm a BIG, FAT, 46 year old woman. I guess I look more like Ursula on Under the Sea but with less make up.

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For those of you who were expecting me to look like a petite Asian girl, you poor unfortunate souls...

And I'm not joking!

Strange Orgasm Experience

Has anyone of you experienced having a strange orgasm or getting an orgasm through a strange manner?

Like you got an orgasm while picking your nose or while being examined by a dentist.

Please share your experience. I would really appreciate it.

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Beastiality + Facesitting

Can anyone here imagine what happens when you put together bestiality and facesitting?

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Sucked Into The Glory Hole...

I was supposed to go to Thailand last year but I had some money problems. My sister lost interest and dropped the idea. I still want to go...

I started communicating with this sub from Canada. He never really showed any interest in me but we kept in touch. We started talking about public humiliation and where we could do it, his suggestion: Bangkok.

I started looking for BDSM bars and of course, Barbar comes up number 1 on Google. They had an event where men get sucked in their glory hole!!! Whoaaaaa!!!

 A glory hole offers other levels of entertainment and mystery that your mind can play games with. Who is on the other side of the glory hole? ; Is it a woman? is it a man? It could be a transsexual or even an animal? Does the other side of the glory hole even have a fully functioning human? To some the idea of a quadriplegic no arms no legs just one wet pleasure hole might be the best. Perhaps you would like to reach in a grab the neck of the sucker through one glory hole and put your dick in the other glory hole?

I would have loved to watch someone I know get sucked by a random person. That would be exciting!

I hope this sub would be able to find time off early this year!