Hot or Cold?

I am starting to wonder if the term "Cold" really fits me. A slave friend of mine said I should have used hot instead since I do have a bad temper. But there are times he loves me because I can be so cold and so evil.


I know I am more of a emotional sadist. I like to torture my slaves, ask them questions to see if they if they are lying or insincere. I was trained by ex boyfriends who screwed my thinking and tried to control me. I was assertive but then I wanted to be the typical Filipina who was submissive and demure. I got into a lot of fights with my exes as it didn't sit well with me that they wanted to control me. I got out after trying so hard to be who I wasn't. I've enough of that so I decided to become more assertive.

I wonder if there's a slave out there who would be able to endure my torture....

Questions from TantricTamarind

Questions from TantricTamarind

A tamarind is a fruit that can be found in Asia. It's basically sour or tart but it can be sweet when ripe. I have no idea why he likes the tamarind so much. Maybe his cock looks like one.

He asked me some questions and I told him I would answer them through my blog. I'll answer a few.

 TantricTamarind : Dear Mistress Asian Domme, how has your day been?   How can I make it better?

Me: I think you know how you can make my day better.

TantricTamarind : Anyway, you obviously have a distaste for toilet slaves, but your profile lists watersports as an interest?  Or a tolerated interest?

Me: I tolerate watersports but that's it. A little bit of golden shower wouldn't be so bad. I like being clean, not OC clean but hygienic. I hate bad smells, scat smells. I had body odor even if it's normal. There are some scents or aromas I can tolerate.

TantricTamarind : Isn't sharing and no-privacy is a big part of filippino culture??

Me: It's Filipino, not filippino. Yes, and you know this from experience, right? I don't like to share my slaves/subs but if I do decide to share, it would be with someone whom I can trust and respect. If only my female friends were more open minded, I would be able to share my slaves with them.

I just had a full body massage and I want to go to sleep but I can't because I have a lot of stuff I need to do. *pout*

I'll answer his other questions later.

Favorite Activity

A slave/sub on CollarMe asked what my favorite activity is. Here's my answer:

Well anything that would give me physical pleasure would be my favorite like face sitting and rimming.
In terms activities, I like orgasm control. It allows me to control the slave. I enjoy some forms of humiliation.

I am thinking about inflicting pain. I'm not a physical sadist as I'm more of an emotional sadist. I like spanking as I like turning a bottom red. 

I like taking pictures of my subs/slaves for posterity. I like keeping a souvenir of the abuse that' I've done to these men.

Humiliation at the store

I humiliated my sub a couple of times in public. It was really mild since he did not expose any part of his body to anyone.

One good example was when we tried to look for an underwear for him to wear. We went to this big mall and in the department store, lingerie section, we looked for a sexy panty. Since he's tall and overweight, we could not find a sexy panty that would fit him. I saw something red that looked acceptable but I wasn't sure it would fit him. I called a sales lady to help me. I asked her, "Would this fit him?" while I pointed to my sub. He had this expressionless face but I could sense his discomfort from the situation. The sales lady tried not to react and avoided looking at my sub while she tried to show me the panty could stretch big enough to accomodate him. So I told her we would take it, grabbed the panty from her and threw it into my sub's face while he was still talking. The lady grinned a bit while he got red in the face.

When we were alone he said he was humiliated and was really excited, he was hard that day.
Nov 9, 2007 2:11 am
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Guess who

Guess who? Remember sofiya?

I was finally able to access my alt account. Whew!

I'm posting some of my alt blog entries here.

First Post for 2012

My first post for 2012. Yay!

I really feel bad that Alt has banned the Philippines from its site. I've posted a lot of entries there and now I can't access them anymore. I also have some pictures that I've uploaded on my blog. Sigh...