I prefer mostly caucasian slaves/subs because they know what BDSM is and what serving a Domme means. Well at least they have an idea. Filipino men know BDSM only through porn. Porn, yes... That's where most Filipino men get their sex education.
I posted an ad somewhere, I said there I was looking for a real slave for all kinds of service. Most respondents were Filipino and didn't know what a slave is.
One Filipino "slave" said he only knows BDSM through documentaries he has watched. Documentaries? Give me a break! He can't even give me the name of the documentary he saw. I told him what slaves do, he kept saying yes to everything I was saying but eventually he backed out.
Another one asked if we could meet up. I asked for what and he said for sex. I stopped responding to his e-mails.
Next guy sent me a pic of him naked. I never reacted, just ignored his e-mail.
There's this Filipino "slave" who said he is will do anything. I asked what his limits are, he said as long as he doesn't get killed, he will do anything I want. So I introduced the idea of forced-bi, he wouldn't do it. He said he's not gay. I asked him what his idea of what a slave does or what he wants to do and he told me his fantasy. He wants to be tied up by one or two girls, they give him a blow job and force him to have sex with them. He said he has seen this on porn movies. I told him Dommes don't usually give blow jobs to slave and that Dommes don't have sex with slaves (I wanted to screw his mind a bit).
I told him I have a different concept of raping a man so I showed him a pic of an ass getting sodomized by me, he said they were gay men. I told him I will accept him only if he allows me to fuck his ass. He wouldn't do it. He said he can't take the humiliation.
I have to give him credit though. He admitted that all he wants is pleasure, not pain or pain from humiliation. Most "slaves" would claim all they want is to give a Domme pleasure but in reality, they are only looking out for themselves.
I tried to end the conversation but he said that if I have a gig (that's his term), he would like to watch. I said no.
End of conversation.
It makes me laugh a lot reading this post Ma'am,cause i understand very well what you say and i think you are right,but i also think most of european men are like your philippines men :)
ReplyDeleteI dont think i could have some problem in let you fuck my ass or something like that,and i'm not a good slave but me too i think that in real life i'd like to serve the pleasure of the woman(even if i'm not in to pain games),but i think you Goddess,Mistress or Dominant women,have a lot of problem in find the right man :)
cause we are almost all focused at our pleasure.
Well,compliments again,cause your blog it's not just well written,but also a bit amusing
so thank you
It's true, you have a point. Subs/slaves don't realize that when they are looking for someone to collar them, they are looking for someone who will give them what they want. Of course, they wouldn't admit this.
ReplyDeleteSo you admit doing things so you could get what you want?
M´aam. Do you prefere slaves/subs older or younger than you?
ReplyDeleteHi Leslie37. Have not been checking comments lately.
ReplyDeleteNot too old nor not too young. Age range would be around 35 to 55. I can accept someone who is around 60 but not older because in my experience, old men don't have the energy to even chat. I had one guy who kept dozing off in the afternoon after taking his lunch. It's a turn off. Hahahaha!
How old are you?