James Franco Directing a Documentary about Kink.com

I saw on TMZ a few days ago that James Franco is directing a movie about the site Kink.com. He will be working with Princess Donna Dolore who is known for her fisting skills.

Photo taken from PerezHilton.com

The movie is about the interesting history of Kink.com.

What caught my attention was how the segment was introduced or mentioned on TMZ. The voice over said something about James Franco joining the S & M "pop culture."

S & M is pop culture? I didn't know that. Is this the same as the Twilight franchise? The books and the movies made vampires very popular. Or maybe the same as the effect of the movie The Craft and the TV series Charmed on people's interest in wicca or witchcraft. I remember seeing a some girls dying their hair dark and dabbling in wiccan culture here in the Philippines.

If it's true that S & M is becoming a part of pop culture, is this good or bad?

Namio Harukawa Inspired

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Brazilian Wax with Pussy Details

I never thought I'd actually find a video of a Brazilian waxing session that shows the intimate details of the pussy and not porn like.

The girl here doesn't have a lot of hair and her pubic hair is light colored. I envy her.



Brazilian Wax - What to expect (full procedure) by BuffonJr
I haven't waxed in months. No time. I know God put hair there for a purpose but for some reason it feels nice to be bald down there.

How Do You Measure Up?

The average male penis is 5 to 6 inches long but not everyone is average.

Image from lagag.com

I dare everyone reading my blog to take this test:

http://www.chacha.com/quiz/893/how-big-is-your-junk

WWE Star Tony Atlas Pays Women To Kick Him In The Face

I had my TV on TMZ when I saw this video:


According to TMZ, Tony Atlas loves feet so much that he pays women to kick and punch his face. Does he have a foot fetish or is he a masochist?

The boots of the woman kicking him aren't "sexy" they look like working boots.

Here's what he said to TMZ:

And the best part -- we reached out to Atlas this week about the video, and he told TMZ he has absolutely no shame ... and proudly shows off the stomping tape any time he gets the chance. (FYI -- Atlas says he paid the big-booted woman $100 for her services)

Atlas tells us he's not just into terrifyingly large boots either, he loves all kinds of footwear ... especially Vans ... and his ideal woman MUST have oversized feet.

Atlas added, "I, Tony 'Mr. USA' Atlas, WWE Hall of Famer, am free to be me. And there is nothing greater on this Planet Earth than to get kicked and punched in the face by a big-footed girl."

Good for Tony. He knows what he wants and would do anything to get it.

Read more: http://www.tmz.com/page/3/#ixzz2EwrbKKKA

Pussy Worship

Looks like he's good.

Hmmmm...

My Tiger Thong

This is the back part of my tiger thong:

This is the front:

 

I never really noticed the tiger in the front in this picture. All the while I thought my underwear had some sort of tribal print in tiger colors. I sent this to my slave and had him wear ito cam for me. It's kinda cute.

There's a story behind this thong. I sent this to him 2 weeks before he was supposed to come here. Unfortunately, the package didn't reach him before he left for the Philippines. While he was here, he was a bit worried about the package as his room mates might open it while he was gone and he was gone a long time so he was kinda tortured for a long time. His room mates do not know anything about his lifestyle and they might start asking him questions if they see that the package is a woman's underwear.

Hmmm... I can't remember if it was used when I sent it. I know I used it but not sure if it was soiled when I sent it. The 2nd underwear I sent him was soiled but he said it smelled like it has not been used at all.

Ahh, memories...

By the way, that's not me wearing the thong, in case everyone reading is wondering. This is my ex slave wearing my thong as part of his humiliation exercise.

2 Broke Girls - Exclusive

Would toothbrushes hurt? Have you tried a toothbrush before?

For Charles and Luca

I am dedicating this photo to Charles and Luca . I know they love pussies in all shapes, sizes and smells. This is one bald, dirty, smelly pussy.

I think I got this from a profile on Adult Friend Finder or ALT 5 years ago. I haven't seen her online for quite sometime since. And for slaveforbeautifulwomen too.

PS.

This isn't my pussy.

Financial Domination

I used to be a Domme who asked required her subs/slaves to pay her so they would be owned by Me. I guess I was some sort of financial Domme online then.

Frankenstorm

All East Coast fetishists and kinksters: Stay safe.

Asian Wife Sitting on Hubby's Face

I have always wanted to take a video of me sitting on my sub's face. It hasn't happened YET because I don't have a sub. I met someone a few weeks ago but he was being difficult.

Sneak peak of the facesitting video

Anyway, this couple, who isn't into facesitting, made an amateur video. I hate them for this.

They have a preview of the clip and if you want to watch the full video, you would have to do something more than sign up for a free account.

Stupid Law

Been busy campaigning for the cybercrime law to be repealed. That particular law will infringe on our freedom of speech, freedom of expression and right to privacy.

Under this law, anyone who is considered a cyberciminal (not an ordinary criminal) will be arrested and have his/her computer confiscated. This will be done without a warrant of arrest. What's more, cyber libel is punishable by 6 years in prison while the ordinary libel, 4 years.

If I post here or on Twitter that a certain government official is inept for not doing his duties, true or not, I can be put sent to jail for this.

Also, porn is illegal. I have no idea why. It's not anyone's business what people do in private. Of course, child porn should be banned but ordinary porn for adults should be allowed.

Law enforcement authorities can collect or record by technical or electronic means traffic data. They would be able to see everything we do online. This is crazy!

I am thinking if I should still blog. This law is really upsetting me.

High in the Himalayas, brothers share one wife

Found this on AFP:

When Tashi Sangmo was 17 she married a 14-year-old neighbour in a remote Himalayan village in Nepal and, as part of the package, she also agreed to wed his younger brother.
In ancient times, the sons of almost every family in the region of Upper Dolpa would jointly marry one woman but the practice of polyandry is dying out as the region begins to open up to modern life.
"Things are easier this way because everything we have stays in one family. It doesn't get divided among many wives and it is me in charge," said Sangmo, who uses a dialect of Tibetan and was speaking through an interpreter.
"Two brothers bring in the money and it's me who decides what to do with it."

Photo released by www.thegreathimalayatrail.org on September 18. Tashi Sangmo Lama, 31, (2nd L) with 25-year old Pasang Lama (R), one of the two husbands in her polyandrous marriage, and their eight-year-old son Pema (2nd R) taking tea with a relative (L) at their home.

The idea of being in a polyandrous relationship is quite interesting. I don't think it's the same as cuckoldry, maybe similar in certain aspects but not totally the same. I fancy the idea of having more than one man at a time but not brothers.

But polyandry prevents the practice of each generation of a family dividing their holdings, and food supplies just manage to cover the locals' basic needs...

Unlike most men in conservative, predominantly Hindu Nepal, husbands in polyandrous marriages handle domestic duties, helping with cooking and childcare, while women are in charge of the money.

This is the lifestyle I WANT: I manage the finances while my men handle domestic chores. Heaven!

It's Now Illegal to Engage in Cybersex in the Philippines

I got this from Daily Dot:

Randy Filipino Internet users, beware: it’s now illegal to engage in “cybersex.” And that doesn’t just mean sending your sweetheart some suggestive pictures. It apparently outlaws cam models and uploading porn, too.

As part of a sweeping, controversial new law called the Cybercrime Prevention Act of 2012, cybersex—defined as the “lascivious exhibition of sexual organs or sexual activity, with the aid of a computer system, for favor or consideration”—is now a crime.

Anyone found guilty of such behavior faces a fine of up to to a million pesos (U.S. $24,018), and an unspecified amount of prison time. “It does outlaw porn online,” Raissa Robles, the South China Morning Post’s Manila correspondent, told the Daily Dot via Twitter. “Some netizens here r concerned even sending each other explicit pics could violate law.”

Only one senator, Teofisto Guingona III, voted against the bill in January, and wrote on Facebook that the cybersex provision “legislates morality.”

Image courtesy of hknet.org.nz

 Here's what the law says:

CHAPTER II SEC. 4. Cybercrime Offenses. — The following acts constitute the offense of cybercrime punishable under this Act:

(c) Content-related Offenses:

(1) Cybersex. — The willful engagement, maintenance, control, or operation, directly or indirectly, of any lascivious exhibition of sexual organs or sexual activity, with the aid of a computer system, for favor or consideration.

I consulted a lawyer and he said that the term " for favor or consideration" in this context means payment or compensation.

I am not selling anything on my blog so I am hoping I am not doing anything illegal. But then again, the law isn't exactly clear on this.

Hypocrisy is popular in this country.

Italian sub sues her Dom

Found this on handbag.com:

An unnamed Italian woman is suing her husband after spending seven years living under a Fifty Shades of Grey-style sexual contract.

The saleswoman from Padua was 24 when she signed a bizarre contract promising total sexual and mental submission to her ‘padrone’ and husband, who is ten years her senior.

Image courtesy of handbag.com

She signed a freaking contract! She agreed to submit to him and do everything he wanted her to do!

After their relationship broke down, the woman has been able to use their sexual contract as evidence of physical and emotional abuse during the marriage. The husband, now aged 41, argues that she signed the pact entirely of her own free will and that the activities were always consensual.

It is now up to a prosecutor, Sergio Dini, to decide whether the wife can reasonably claim physical abuse, or whether her accusations should be dismissed on the basis that she signed a contract detailing her husband's extreme tastes in the bedroom.

One would think that Dominants are the ones capable of screwing over their subs, apparently, this isn't always the case. A subs still has the power to ruin a Dominant's life.

Is that contract legal? If it is, maybe he could sue her for breach of contract. I'm just saying...

DIY Time!

I went to the hardware store a few days ago. I saw some wooden planks scattered. I asked the sales clerk if I bought some planks from them, would they cut the planks for me, he said they could do that.

Hmmm... *grin*

If only I had a slave to use it on, I'd be motivated to create it.

Rest in Peace

Rest in peace Michael Clark Duncan. I liked his character in the Green Mile. 

Rest in peace

One sub who used to send me email everyday stopped emailing me. He was supposed to come here to work for a couple of years that's why we have been planning things. He sent me emails everyday as part of his task but he just stopped all of a sudden. All the while I was thinking he's an asshole for wasting my time, another wanker, etc. Or maybe he backed out of his contract to work here because he didn't want to leave the country he's in. He didn't have the courtesy to say he can't continue. Then when I heard the news that Michael Clark Duncan died of a heart attack, I realized this sub could also be dead just like Michael. How can a dead man email me if he's dead. They have the same age. RIP.

For the sub who died recently

Back to the Drawing Board

I'm back to the drawing board. I have zero slave applicants/prospects. I guess it's just as well since I need to really sit down and figure out what I really want at this point in my life.

I have been conflicted with the idea of having a part time or temporary slave. I want to have someone for long term or well, permanent.

I should stop settling for less or considering someone who will not be able to give me the attention I need long term.

Mundane Tasks

I make subs do small tasks or what I call mundane tasks. This allows me to see if a sub is serious or not, if all he wants is excitement but not service.

I believe in this:

If you can’t be trusted with small things, you shouldn’t be trusted with big things. 

Yes, these tasks are tedious and non-sexual but very easy to do. If they can do these tasks consistently, then they can be trusted. If subs can't do something as simple as a daily text/SMS, offline message or email, how can they possibly be trusted with something like satisfying me? I guess these men don't realize that doing these small things make the Domme happy. They are just too busy thinking about jerking off or cumming.

Or they probably think they are too important to be bothered by these mundane tasks.

I'm Bored

I'm starting to get bored and lose interest.

Nothing is happening to me, kink wise.

My vanilla life is more interesting and exciting that my Domme life. No action at all.

I'd love to go on hiatus, stop thinking about BDSM but I can't leave my blog and not post anything.

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Fetish Furniture

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Not Feeling Well

I am not feeling well. My fever goes on and off.

Here is a pic inside the house:

Flood water hasn't reached its peak because the top of table can still be seen. See the floating chairs?

Here's something I think is funny:

French and Australian nationals in Philippine flooded street. Someone posted this on Facebook.

I'd like to thank Charles and Freddie Mercury guy for sending their donations. Thank you very much!

I wonder if there are others who have sent their help?

Worst Flooding Ever

I don't know if you have heard about what happened to the Philippines recently. Our house got flooded waist deep (inside).

This is the worst flooding I have ever experienced, flooding won't subside because it won't stop raining. It has been raining for days non stop that's why our house still has water until now.

Here is a clip from CNN:



My experience is nothing compared to the others. Some had to stay on their roofs overnight because entire first floor of their houses were engulfed by the water. This means they have lost everything they own. A few have lost their loved ones.

I would like to ask my dear readers to spare these people some change. If you could send $5 or $10, that would feed one family for one day. Don't send the money to me. I would suggest you send it to Red Cross Philippines. I would really appreciate any kind of help you could extend.

Those who want to be my slave, I order you to do it ASAP or else! Hahaha.

I would also like to take this opportunity to thank the people from this community who showed their concern for me. One is a dear "friend" and another is a slave-applicant. Your concern means a lot to me. Thank you.

GRRRRRR

How can I take care of my feet if they are constantly soaked in flood water? I just had my pedi and foot spa a few hours ago.

Love Devirginizing Asses

An applicant slave sent me this message:

"... await the loss of my anal virginity."

The phrase made me laugh. I am looking forward to devirginizing his ass.

Too bad I wasn't able devirginize someone recently. I would like to devirginze anyone's ass. Come to think of it, I NEVER devirginized one.

This guy's ass wasn't a virgin anyone when I owned it. He was loose and overused, like he has given birth to a horse through his ass.

I like nice firm asses, nice firm virgin asses.

I'm looking forward to owning a few asses in the next few months.

Wish me luck!

Sexual Objectification

Here is Wikipedia's definition of Sexual Objectification:

Sexual objectification refers to the practice of regarding or treating another person merely as an instrument (object) towards one's sexual pleasure, and a sex object is a person who is regarded simply as an object of sexual gratification or who is sexually attractive. Objectification more broadly is an attitude that regards a person as a commodity or as an object for use, with little or no regard for a person's personality or sentience. Objectification is most commonly examined at a societal level, but can also arise at an individual level.

Here's a special section on  Sexual objectification of men

Feminist authors Christina Hoff Sommers and Naomi Wolf write that women's sexual liberation has led many women to a role reversal, whereby they view men as sex objects,  in a manner similar to what they criticize men's treatment of women. Research has suggested that the psychological effects of objectification on men are similar to those of women, leading to negative body image among men.

Instances where men are being presented as sex objects include advertising, music videos, movies and television shows, beefcake calendars, women's magazines, male strip shows, and clothed female nude male (CFNM) events. Also, more women are purchasing and consuming pornography.

My way of objectifying men is using them for my own pleasure. I am usually clothed or partly naked when they serve me orally while they are naked. I don't reciprocate but sometimes I do give them something to tease them or reinforce their horniness. The hornier they are, the more submissive they become. The more submissive they become, they more eager they want to make me happy or give me pleasure. The more the give me pleasure, the more I tease them. Nice cycle.

If I had known these techniques when I was starting to dominate, I would have a permanent slave now.

Here are my sex objects: past and hopefully future:

I am hoping that someone will one day be my permanent sex slave/sex toy/sex object.

This music video is an example of women who look at men as sex objects.

Fun Song!

What a fun song! This was a huge hit in the late 90's.

My first time to see this music video.

Small Penis Humiliation Video

I'm feeling really low right now. I'm looking stuff that would cheer me up.

I found this small penis humiliation video on Youtube. I think it's slightly amusing.

Take a look:

Feeling Crappy

I have been feeling crappy these past 2 days because of the bad weather and my hormones. I'm PMS-ing as I will be having my period in a few days. TMI? Hahahahaha.

Anyway, I decided to contact my ex slave/bf who tried his best to comfort me. I couldn't really understand him because our connection was bad. We were using VoIP.

A few minutes later, my ex Italian slut sent me a message. We had a bit of a falling out early this year so we stopped communicating. I have been thinking about him. We had fun when he was here. I like what he said that when he talks to me he always felt some form of fear and awe at the same time. He said that loved it when I was "cold and sarcastic."

I noticed that I have been nice and friendly lately. I seem to have lost my "cold" nature. I can be cold and sarcastic and I do have a temper but I have "mellowed" because I want to see if I would have a better chance of getting a slave this way. Apparently this style is even worse...

askmissa.com

Dirty Hairy Pussy

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Cock Pinching Using the Feet

I saw this earlier.

I was just wondering, if a slave has a foot fetish or gets turned on by feet, would this be something that he would find exciting?

Foot Worship with Cock Pinching

I'm looking for a video of foot worship with cock pinching.

Can someone help me?

Asian BBW Facesitting

Girl on Girl BBW facesitting? Interesting. The top looks Asian but I can't figure out her language.



Super Asian BBW Facesitting by deebeeking

Glory Hole

I didn't know there was such a thing as a glory hole when I told a sub friend of mine that he should create a wall that has a hole for cocks and suck the cocks that go through the hole. This friend is bi-sexual and he enjoys the humiliation that comes with sucking cock. He told me my idea isn't original, it's called a glory hole.

I saw a forum that had various p0rn videos. I was looking for ruined orgasm videos when I came across screenshots of a video:

I like the idea of using a glory hole to play with a sub. I am thinking of putting the sub in a coffin like cage so he won't be able to move, his hands would always be at the side, feet stretched out. There would be provisions for air to pass through but basically he would be trapped inside. Only the cock is exposed.

This would be a good way to make a sub feel helpless. This would also be a great opportunity to ruin his orgasm.

Hmmmm....

I forgot to mention, it was Luke who referred the forum to me. Thanks, you know who you are.

False Alarm

I know I said before that I may have found someone but it's actually a false alarm, a dud. I ended communicating with what I thought was a potential sub because of too many excuses/reasons/justifications.

I'm a very strict and demanding Domme. Because of this attitude, a lot of guys have backed out, called me mean, too strict, etc. My ex slave said my standards may be too high.

Lately I had to relax my standards a bit. I am not as mean or as strict. I was thinking some subs are not cut out for emotional sadism. I have given concessions and made some compromises. I have been understanding accommodating. But what happened? Someone said I was nice. Some said I was not dominant enough. Someone walked all over me and did what he wanted to do. Someone thought I was just another booty call or fantasy fulfillment and forgot that I am a Domme and he's supposed to serve ME and make ME happy (that's what they all say at the start).

Earlier I was just upset but I have to say I am sad now. Sad not because of losing what I thought was a potential sub. I'm sad because I'm wondering, was I taken for a ride? I guess I'll never know.

Image courtesy of Stickgirl

The picture describes how I feel right now. I know tomorrow I'll feel better again. This is just temporary.

Reminds Me of Namio Harukawa

I saw this picture on Facebook and it reminded me of Namiro Harukawa: Big Mistress with a thin slave. Hahahahaha!

I can't seem to find where this picture is originally from.

Sardax Femdom Art

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Cunnilingus Art

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Not Good

I am feeling melancholic right now. It started this morning, I woke up with a mild headache and I remembered my dream. My dream wasn't sad but it was definitely saying something about me and what's happening to me now.

There were stuff that I wanted to share but I decided to share them later, once I feel a bit better.

Ughh... I hate feeling this way.

OrgasmDenial.com

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I Miss...

I miss having someone special in my life.

I am a Domme but at the end of the day, I am a Woman. I want to be loved and cared for. I want to be romanced or have romance in my life. Basically, I want someone who genuinely cares for me. I had this a long time ago, I had a sub who loved me but we both screwed things up.

I don't expect to have a slave/sub to be come my boyfriend. It's possible but I'm not sure it will likely happen. Sometimes I feel like subs do not care about how a Domme feels as a Woman. In my experience, most subs expect a Domme to be dominant 100% of the time. If a Domme mentions something vanilla or not related to D/s, they skirt the issue or act as if it's non-existent.

How many times I've mentioned to a sub, something like, I enjoy watching comedies, I get, "Ah I see." Nothing else follows or they pull me back to talk about something kinky or D/s. I have mentioned to a sub that I had to stop messaging him because my house is already flooded. The response was, "Ok Miss. I'll talk to you again tomorrow." No care there.

Eversince I started domming, I'd get flowers from my ex (I never ordered him but he would send me flowers every now and then). When we parted ways, there was always a sub who would send me flowers on my birthday, upon my orders of course. A few days before my birthday, I was venting to an alleged Dom about not getting any flowers on my birthday. His reaction was, "Why would you want flowers? You're a Domme." WHAT????? I stopped chatting with him after that. I did get my flowers but I had to order someone. How pathetic is that? Hahahaha.

My ex sub/bf raised the bar so high that no one can compare to him. He did care about me and did things to make me happy. When we were starting, he was required to send me a text message everyday. Even if it was expensive, he did it because it was his obligation. After we met, I forgot all about his text duty but would still send me a message and sometimes he would call just to hear my voice. I never required him to call me because I was aware it was expensive but he did it because he wanted to and he knew it would make me happy.

We didn't work out. We both had issues, he and I. And it didn't help that I was new to the lifestyle. He was new too but he knew more than I did. But that's all in the past now.

I would sometimes interview subs, ask them about their past Dommes. Some would tell me their Dommes got married to a vanilla guy or to another sub. I'd tell them why didn't they just marry their Dommes in the first place. I think they didn't realize that a Domme wants to be desired and needed as a Woman too. Or maybe they are waiting for the Dommes to order them to marry them. Come on!

These vanilla men have loved and accepted these Women for what they are. It is hard to be dominant all the time. We also want to be taken care of and feel vulnerable once in a while. I guess my situation is even harder for me because I'm a Filipina. Filipinas are known for being sweet and affectionate and caring. I feel I can't be those to a sub as he would perceive it as weakness or submission. Yes, Filipinas are also known for being submissive to their men. Been there, done that and will never go back to being submissive but I still miss being affectionate.

Sorry readers, I'm just venting. It's not easy being a Domme. I am human too.

Captions by Charles

I wasn't aware that pictures with captions are considered a fetish. I have seen a few forum posts about this.I guess the stimulation would come from both the picture and the words.

Check out the other pictures on femdompower.

Tootsie Roll

I've never seen any of the episodes of the HBO TV series "Real Sex." I just discovered it through a video on YouTube.

Real Sex is like a documentary that explores sexuality and sexual styles of the 90's. Has anyone seen the series? It is kinda interesting.

This is just a clip from Real Sex Episode 24. The segment title is Tootsie Roll, it's about foot fetishists and foot fetish.






I've never met anyone who has a foot fetish.

An Ode to Lady Heather

First time I saw Lady Heather on CSI, I was amazed. She is what I would call the Sublime Domme/Mistress. She's so beautiful and smart. She can read people. Melinda Clark has done justice to her role as Lady Heather Kessler.

I wonder if there are real life Dommes like here who can actually read people.

Here are some clips from CSI.






I can't find clips of Langston and Lady Heather together.

Oh well..

I think it's never gonna happen. Were they all lies? I guess I'll never know...

Trampling

I wasn't aware that trampling was a fetish. I only "discovered" it through a guy who likes getting trampled.

He's now getting trampled by his wife and has decided to blog about their adventures. He even has video clips of their activities. Here's a screenshot of their video:

I only learned about his blog recently. Check out Life of a Trample Lover.

Sigh

Yeah...

Source: mycoffeely.com via Jenna on Pinterest

Scurrilous

I had to find the meaning of the word scurrilous.

Definition of SCURRILOUS by Merriam and Webster

1 a : using or given to coarse language  

b : vulgar and evil <scurrilous imposters who used a religious exterior to rob poor people — Edwin Benson>

2 : containing obscenities, abuse, or slander <scurrilous accusations>

Dear readers, please visit Scurrilous blog and tell me which definition would be appropriate for it.

Cold Asian Domme's slave in a Chastity Device

My new sub (???) bought a chastity device. It's a Bon 4. He said he likes the way it feels as it comfortable. I'm not sure if he mean it was comfortable wearing it like a glove or it feels comfortable having his orgasms controlled.

This guy needs to be re-programmed. He wanks so much so that he can't cum through regular sex. He is unusual.

He is coming here for work but he will be serving me. This means I would be able to control him real time.

Freddie Mercury

I did voice and video chat with a potential sub last night. He showed me on cam this leather strap he has. I don't know what the purpose of the strap is.

This morning, I told him to wear the strap and take pictures. My new pet (???) did what I ordered him to do and took pictures of the leather cock strap. Somehow it reminded me of Old Guard and Freddie Mercury.


Here's Freddie...

Hmmm... This guy is hairy! I'll be giving him a good waxing. It would be like candle play meets CBT. Hahahahaha!

WIll I Be Able to Use My Strap-on, FINALLY?

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Is It Time?

I have been communicating with a few slaves who are here or will be coming here soon.

I am hoping to get my hands dirty and get serviced orally. It's been more than a year...

My Sad Sex Toy Collection

Been very busy lately, no time to update my blog nor chat.

My last post was on the sad sex toy collection that I have, compared to this sub girl I know.

Here's a picture of my current collection:

Now here's this subbie girl's collection:

While I got a few pieces, she's got a TON!

Collection

I checked out the photos of my "friend" on Fetlife. She's a Filipina submissive. Very interesting girl. I saw her sex toy collection and I wanted to cry.

I don't have time to take screenshots now as it's pretty late and I'm really tired. I'll show a photo of her collection as compared to my sad collection.

Ben Wa Balls

I wish I had ben wa balls. I heard they are good for muscle control.

http://www.tmz.com/2012/05/18/fifty-shades-of-grey-sex-toy-smart-balls-vagina/

Has anyone read the book "Fifty Shades of Grey"? Sex shops are having a field day because of the book.

Sex Toys: Made in China

There's a small road on the side of the Imperial Hotel in Hong Kong that had stores that sold sex toys. My sister and her hubby were exploring the area and they discovered the street. She said that the entire length of the street, or most of it, had a lot of shops with sex toys. I was intrigued but I didn't want to go there alone. She didn't want to go there anymore since she has already seen the entire street.

I was able to convince myself that I shouldn't go there anymore for the following reasons:
I may be dangerous to go there. The street was really narrow and there were a lot of people there who didn't look "trustworthy" (for lack of a better word to use)
I would only see made in China toys which didn't really appeal to me.

Some years ago, I bought a made in China sex toy as a Christmas gift for someone close to me. She was happy to get the toy. I didn't keep it for myself since I wasn't sure I'd use it. Here it is:

It looks okay, nothing unusual about it. But if you look closely, the plastic looks brittle. I was worried it would break while inside my pussy. I was also concerned that the battery would leak or the wires would get exposed and I'd get electrocuted or get pricked or that portions of the toy would come off and get lost inside me. I can just imagine the news if something happens to me: Cold Asian Domme gets hospitalized over broken sex toy.

That's the reason why I didn't keep it, hahahahaha.

I'm such a bad person. 

What do you call a Domme who doesn't have a slave?

Question: 
What do you call a Domme who doesn't have a slave?

Answer:
Not a Domme

I wasn't able to "play" with this slave/subbie I met last year. He has a girlfriend now so he won't be able to meet me in the afternoon.

I bet he will crave for humiliation in 3 months time if he doesn't get this from his current relationship. He may be getting a lot of sex but he's not getting his ass fucked, I think.

I feel so sad. He was good at giving oral service. I was really looking forward to using him again.

Sigh...

WTF

Can't a Domme joke about money without being accused of being a gold digger or be suspected of making friemds with a sub for money??

Why I Will Not Accept Bisexual Subs

I have gay and bisexual friends. Some of them are subs. I have nothing against them. I seem to enjoy teasing them about their preference and the kind of things they should do to get their rocks off (like glory holes, etc).

However, the case is different when it comes to a sub who is wanting to serve me. I will not accept one. The reason being a bisexual sub will always look to get humiliated by a man. I am not a man and I don't want to have to find someone to humiliate my sub for the sub's "pleasure". He will find ways to service a man, with or without the order of a Mistress.

I had this Caucasian sub friend who lives in Asia. He was married once and he loves women. He even had a girlfriend in the country where he stayed. But then he really craves the humiliation from sucking cock. I asked him if he's gay or if he gets attracted to men, he said he doesn't find men attractive and would not kiss a man. He just wants the feeling he gets when he gets humiliated. I asked him if his relationship was bad or if sex was bad and he said everything was good between him and his girl. So he goes out of his way to cruise for cocks to suck, local and otherwise. Eventually his relationship with the local woman ended but he kept sucking cocks of his "regular" patrons. We met on alt, he was looking for someone to dominate him, to order him to do things but apparently, he has been doing things without anyone telling him.

THIS is my issue. I am pretty sure that a sub will crave the same way and would cheat on me. I don't want to go through that.

I find this ecard of someecards.com funny.

Got this from weknowmemes.com

There is one sub here in the Philippines who wants to "serve" me but he is bisexual, as in he has sex with ladyboys. I was hoping to have some "practice" since I haven't gotten my hands dirty for quite sometime now. I am wondering if I should just give him a try, maybe just once. I just can't stop thinking that the mouth he would use to give me cunnilingus would be the same mouth that has sucked cock and maybe even cleaned a man's ass. Ugh!

There's a Chance a Caucasian Slave WIll Serve Me Soon

There's a chance that this Asian Mistress would meet up with a Caucasian submissive late this week. I've met him before, he's this guy.

I am not sure what to do with him yet but I'll definitely sit on his face a bit.

I was thinking of taking pictures and videos but it seems no one is interested to see them. I was considering taking photos of something like this and this, me receiving wonderful oral service but who would want to see these photos anyway?!  Only a few people post comments and not all blog posts get comments. Maybe my stories aren't interesting and my pictures are boring. I guess it would be uninteresting and pretty boring to see an Asian Mistress like me getting served orally.

Oh well.. Maybe I shouldn't take pictures of me and the slave I'm meeting this weekend.

My Online Slave Sodomizing Himself With a Cucumer

Here's my online slave playing with himself on cam:

Earlier, he was fucking is ass with a big and long cucumber. I am into anal play. I took a video but it quality is really poor.

See his ass? It looks wide open. Hahaha.

We should have used Skype or MSN.

I've known this guy for years and he used to serve me that's why I have accepted him again as my online entertainer. He is, once again, serving a Fantastic Asian Domme. He's a luck dog!

Cold Asian Domme's First Fisting

First time I fisted someone. It wasn't bad but the sub pushed my hand in deeper, that got me worried as I was starting to feel his innards.

I have never imagined myself fisting anyone. Fisting isn't something I thought I would do but I did it. It's part of anal play

I wonder if it's common for an Asian Mistress to want to fist a slave.

By the way, I also used 2 didlos on the same slave. Did I use the right preposition of place? On or in or inside or through? I wish I had taken videos or at least a picture of it.

ColdAsianDomme in Action

As I've mentioned in an earlier post,  I have had this video but it has always been dark. I never had the chance to improve the quality since I don't know how. I hope there's someone kind enough to find a way to fix the video. Here's the link to download.

http://depositfiles.com/files/69qbim7wq

This is actually a video of me sodomizing a slave for the very first time.

Like a virgin, hey! Pegged for the very fist time...

You readers may want to listen to Madonna while downloading.

He Loves Feet

Cold Asian Domme had a very relaxing foot massage given by a male massage therapist.

I tried the Chinese foot massage while in Hong Kong. It was a bit painful but it was good.

I want someone who can do this. This guy can't be my slave, he charges too high! I want someone who will do it for free, for the love of my feet.

I wonder if he massages feet because he has a foot fetish or he just needs the money.