Sexual objectification refers to the practice of regarding or treating another person merely as an instrument (object) towards one's sexual pleasure, and a sex object is a person who is regarded simply as an object of sexual gratification or who is sexually attractive. Objectification more broadly is an attitude that regards a person as a commodity or as an object for use, with little or no regard for a person's personality or sentience. Objectification is most commonly examined at a societal level, but can also arise at an individual level.Here's a special section on Sexual objectification of men
Feminist authors Christina Hoff Sommers and Naomi Wolf write that women's sexual liberation has led many women to a role reversal, whereby they view men as sex objects, in a manner similar to what they criticize men's treatment of women. Research has suggested that the psychological effects of objectification on men are similar to those of women, leading to negative body image among men.My way of objectifying men is using them for my own pleasure. I am usually clothed or partly naked when they serve me orally while they are naked. I don't reciprocate but sometimes I do give them something to tease them or reinforce their horniness. The hornier they are, the more submissive they become. The more submissive they become, they more eager they want to make me happy or give me pleasure. The more the give me pleasure, the more I tease them. Nice cycle.
Instances where men are being presented as sex objects include advertising, music videos, movies and television shows, beefcake calendars, women's magazines, male strip shows, and clothed female nude male (CFNM) events. Also, more women are purchasing and consuming pornography.
If I had known these techniques when I was starting to dominate, I would have a permanent slave now.
Here are my sex objects: past and hopefully future:
I am hoping that someone will one day be my permanent sex slave/sex toy/sex object.
This music video is an example of women who look at men as sex objects.
Well written, Miss. I always think men are particularly easy to objectify, via the cycle you said. Horny guys - at the risk of being sexist - are stupid. xD
ReplyDeleteYou really ought to have a permanent slave. I'm sure it'll work out, but I hope sooner.
Thanks Charles.
DeleteQuestion: So you admit you become stupid when you are horny?
I noticed guys say things they don't really mean when they are hot and horny, which gets them into trouble or they would find themselves regretting what they said once they are "sober".
Yes, absolutely. Me - plenty of times. I'm not trying to use being turned-on as an excuse, but yes I think that has a lot to do with guys' dumb behaviour. And boy, it can be exploited by a smart domanint woman, but yeah -- also that guy might end up promising the Earth and then running off the moment he snaps out of it. I have been that guy and regretted it pretty badly.
DeleteWhat one really needs is a loving, stable couple where both of them are happy with him being objectified and lead around by his, uh, over-excitement. I've known couples who had this going on - the guy always horny, but truly, completely and romantically devoted. It's a good thing. But hard to pull off I guess? Not sure.
Also - the slideshow there was very cool. And I never heard that song, but it made me smile.
ReplyDeleteOld old song. When I was younger it sounded hip but now I think it's about women looking at men as sex objects.
DeleteIt really was. You don't often hear that, even now. I guess in the past no-one dared and now objectification in either direction discouraged. I guess.
DeleteIt reminded me of this, which isn't really all that similar, but I remember secretly loving it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5UX2afsTqFI
To quote Charles:
ReplyDeleteWhat one really needs is a loving, stable couple where both of them are happy with him being objectified and lead around by his, uh, over-excitement. I've known couples who had this going on - the guy always horny, but truly, completely and romantically devoted. It's a good thing. But hard to pull off I guess? Not sure.
This is ideal. I have to say I'd like to have someone submissive just doing what I want him to do, making me satisfied all the time without him expecting anything in return except for my love (?) and guiding hand that slaps and spanks him occasionally. Hahahaha.
Hard to pull off? Maybe harder to find the right match?
It's always hard to find the right match. :)
DeleteBut yeah, exactly.
I want to be an instrument.
ReplyDeleteAnd WOW.. great video. Thank you for sharing it. So hot.
I am going to start posting vids on MY blog once I figure out how to.
Thanks.
DeleteYou can use blogger's service to upload videos. It would be good to have some videos on your blog.
That video really is very hot, I have to say.
DeleteAnd yes - I didn't know about that video feature either, Miss. Good to know.