Ruined Orgasm

First of all, I'd like to say hello to CharlesInCharge.

I've learned a new concept today: Ruined Orgasm. I am aware of this but only in the vanilla context. I read a few posts on Orgasm Denial about this and I is another way of controlling someone's orgasm or part of orgasm denial.

According to Wikipedia:

This practice allows the physical release of sexual climax while denying or minimizing the satisfaction and pleasure associated with orgasm. Stimulation is provided to the moment orgasm is inevitable, and then stopped by breaking all physical contact with the genitals just as orgasm begins (i.e. past the "edge"). Non-erotic or nonsexual distractions may also be introduced at this point, which can include undesirable pain or unpleasant smells or discussion of prosaic, unrelated topics.

I think ass kisser and I practiced this, sort of. When we have sex, I would order him to stop before he comes. It was very hard for him to do this since he had to stop a lot. Since I don't cum through coitus, it would take hours before I let him cum. There were even times I would tell him to stop so we could go out to for shopping or do some errands together. I'm not sure if I ruined his orgasms at all but I did control them.

I may have done this to someone last year. He was not in good shape (he was sick) but we pushed on to meeting and playing a bit.... Hmmmm... I'll just keep the details to my self. Hahaha!

Sex Toys are Better Than Cocks

I am sick and tired of looking at cock pics. Some "slaves" think it's cool to send a Domme cock picks. Ugh! I'd rather see a face and the entire body naked than to look at a close up shot of a cock. Sex toys look a lot better than cocks.

This sub girl told me I should just look at sex toys. She has a point. The modern sex toys are eye candy with all those colors and sleek designs. The girl who told me this writes reviews for sex toys. She has a good collection of toys she uses on herself. I'd like to have a collection too but I really don't want to spend my money on these toys. I like looking at toys but I don't like using them on myself. I'd like to collect them but I don't have any use for them other than to sodomize a slave or use on a slave and as of now, I don't have a slave.

Here's a toy that looks nice and the sub girl did a review on this toy:

This toy is from EdenFantasys. I think this is a plug. Would be perfect on a male slave.

Ass Washer

I personally use toilet paper and then soap and water to wash my ass after taking a dump. I want to make sure I'm clean , as in REALLY clean down there. I don't care about people's fetishes about being a toilet or using their tongues to clean the ass. When it comes to cleanliness, I want to be very clean. I hate smells and the feeling of being sticky or uncomfortable.

Anyway, there was one time right after I wiped my ass with toilet paper, I ordered ass kisser to wash my ass, hole and all, using soap and water. Of course, he did it but he was really gentle as if he was washing a baby's bum. I had to make him wash again and told him to soap my ass very well. I can't remember if it turned him on. I would think it did but he never mentioned it.

I wish I had someone to wash my ass right now...

And oh, that's not me in the picture. I can't remember where I got that. I can't find a picture of a guy washing a woman's ass. Hahaha!

I'm confused. Did Dan Savage think the writer was giving him BS because he and his wife enjoys orgasm denial? Is it not possible for a man to become loving and attentive when denied orgasms for a long time? 

 My Wife Keeps Me in a Chastity Belt For Months at a Time

  By Dan Savage Tuesday, Feb 19 2008

Just before I married, I got a CB-2000 male chastity device and gave it to my wife as a joke Christmas present. She had previous mates fool around on her and I wanted to let her know I was serious.
We played with it some, and a year later she got me a CB-3000. Soon, she was keeping me in it for a week at a time. Now, she keeps me in it for a month at a time. While I have adjusted to this, I miss being able to masturbate when I want to. I have tried to talk her into allowing me to be free again and she refuses. It's not that she's afraid I will fool around, but she believes that I'm more attentive, caring, and loving when kept in this condition. Is it becoming more common for wives to keep their husbands in chastity? —Lost Over Cock Kept Erotically Denied

No, LOCKED, it's not. Unfortunately, bullshit letters are all too common.
So you bought an expensive male chastity device as a gag gift—those CB-2000s start at $150—because, hey, there's nothing a woman with adultery issues wants more at Christmas than a gag gift that plays on her fears and insecurities. You must be a gas at funerals, LOCKED. And now your wife keeps your dick locked up for a month at a time. Against your will. And you're powerless to do anything about it. Uh-huh.
If your wife keeps you in chastity—if you have a wife—it's because being locked up in a CB-3000 turns you on. Like most male-chastity fetishists, you find the scenario more exciting if it's something your wife does to you, not something you have to beg the wife to do, but you can't expect the rest of us to play along. If you want to see your fetish discussed in Savage Love, just be honest. Send me a letter that says, "Write about the freaky shit that turns me on!" But don't make up some bullshit scenario.

Job Interview

I just did voice chat with a "slave" and it felt like I was in a job interview. Hahahaha!

It's really hard to "train" someone to be humble and polite. These are qualities that I mainly look for. I had to keep reminding this guy to address me properly but he was "duhh?"

Oh well... Charge that to experience...