I'm confused. Did Dan Savage think the writer was giving him BS because he and his wife enjoys orgasm denial? Is it not possible for a man to become loving and attentive when denied orgasms for a long time?
Just before I married, I got a CB-2000 male chastity device and
gave it to my wife as a joke Christmas present. She had previous mates
fool around on her and I wanted to let her know I was serious.
We played with it some, and a year later she got me a CB-3000.
Soon, she was keeping me in it for a week at a time. Now, she keeps me
in it for a month at a time. While I have adjusted to this, I miss being
able to masturbate when I want to. I have tried to talk her into
allowing me to be free again and she refuses. It's not that she's afraid
I will fool around, but she believes that I'm more attentive, caring,
and loving when kept in this condition. Is it becoming more common for
wives to keep their husbands in chastity? —Lost Over Cock Kept
Erotically Denied
No, LOCKED, it's not. Unfortunately, bullshit letters are all too common.
So you bought an expensive male chastity device as a gag gift—those
CB-2000s start at $150—because, hey, there's nothing a woman with
adultery issues wants more at Christmas than a gag gift that plays on
her fears and insecurities. You must be a gas at funerals, LOCKED. And
now your wife keeps your dick locked up for a month at a time. Against
your will. And you're powerless to do anything about it. Uh-huh.
If your wife keeps you in chastity—if you have a wife—it's
because being locked up in a CB-3000 turns you on. Like most
male-chastity fetishists, you find the scenario more exciting if it's
something your wife does to you, not something you have to beg the wife
to do, but you can't expect the rest of us to play along. If you want to
see your fetish discussed in Savage Love, just be honest. Send me a
letter that says, "Write about the freaky shit that turns me on!" But
don't make up some bullshit scenario.
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