Mundane Tasks

I make subs do small tasks or what I call mundane tasks. This allows me to see if a sub is serious or not, if all he wants is excitement but not service.

I believe in this:

If you can’t be trusted with small things, you shouldn’t be trusted with big things. 

Yes, these tasks are tedious and non-sexual but very easy to do. If they can do these tasks consistently, then they can be trusted. If subs can't do something as simple as a daily text/SMS, offline message or email, how can they possibly be trusted with something like satisfying me? I guess these men don't realize that doing these small things make the Domme happy. They are just too busy thinking about jerking off or cumming.

Or they probably think they are too important to be bothered by these mundane tasks.

I'm Bored

I'm starting to get bored and lose interest.

Nothing is happening to me, kink wise.

My vanilla life is more interesting and exciting that my Domme life. No action at all.

I'd love to go on hiatus, stop thinking about BDSM but I can't leave my blog and not post anything.

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Fetish Furniture

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Not Feeling Well

I am not feeling well. My fever goes on and off.

Here is a pic inside the house:

Flood water hasn't reached its peak because the top of table can still be seen. See the floating chairs?

Here's something I think is funny:

French and Australian nationals in Philippine flooded street. Someone posted this on Facebook.

I'd like to thank Charles and Freddie Mercury guy for sending their donations. Thank you very much!

I wonder if there are others who have sent their help?

Worst Flooding Ever

I don't know if you have heard about what happened to the Philippines recently. Our house got flooded waist deep (inside).

This is the worst flooding I have ever experienced, flooding won't subside because it won't stop raining. It has been raining for days non stop that's why our house still has water until now.

Here is a clip from CNN:



My experience is nothing compared to the others. Some had to stay on their roofs overnight because entire first floor of their houses were engulfed by the water. This means they have lost everything they own. A few have lost their loved ones.

I would like to ask my dear readers to spare these people some change. If you could send $5 or $10, that would feed one family for one day. Don't send the money to me. I would suggest you send it to Red Cross Philippines. I would really appreciate any kind of help you could extend.

Those who want to be my slave, I order you to do it ASAP or else! Hahaha.

I would also like to take this opportunity to thank the people from this community who showed their concern for me. One is a dear "friend" and another is a slave-applicant. Your concern means a lot to me. Thank you.

GRRRRRR

How can I take care of my feet if they are constantly soaked in flood water? I just had my pedi and foot spa a few hours ago.

Love Devirginizing Asses

An applicant slave sent me this message:

"... await the loss of my anal virginity."

The phrase made me laugh. I am looking forward to devirginizing his ass.

Too bad I wasn't able devirginize someone recently. I would like to devirginze anyone's ass. Come to think of it, I NEVER devirginized one.

This guy's ass wasn't a virgin anyone when I owned it. He was loose and overused, like he has given birth to a horse through his ass.

I like nice firm asses, nice firm virgin asses.

I'm looking forward to owning a few asses in the next few months.

Wish me luck!

Sexual Objectification

Here is Wikipedia's definition of Sexual Objectification:

Sexual objectification refers to the practice of regarding or treating another person merely as an instrument (object) towards one's sexual pleasure, and a sex object is a person who is regarded simply as an object of sexual gratification or who is sexually attractive. Objectification more broadly is an attitude that regards a person as a commodity or as an object for use, with little or no regard for a person's personality or sentience. Objectification is most commonly examined at a societal level, but can also arise at an individual level.

Here's a special section on  Sexual objectification of men

Feminist authors Christina Hoff Sommers and Naomi Wolf write that women's sexual liberation has led many women to a role reversal, whereby they view men as sex objects,  in a manner similar to what they criticize men's treatment of women. Research has suggested that the psychological effects of objectification on men are similar to those of women, leading to negative body image among men.

Instances where men are being presented as sex objects include advertising, music videos, movies and television shows, beefcake calendars, women's magazines, male strip shows, and clothed female nude male (CFNM) events. Also, more women are purchasing and consuming pornography.

My way of objectifying men is using them for my own pleasure. I am usually clothed or partly naked when they serve me orally while they are naked. I don't reciprocate but sometimes I do give them something to tease them or reinforce their horniness. The hornier they are, the more submissive they become. The more submissive they become, they more eager they want to make me happy or give me pleasure. The more the give me pleasure, the more I tease them. Nice cycle.

If I had known these techniques when I was starting to dominate, I would have a permanent slave now.

Here are my sex objects: past and hopefully future:

I am hoping that someone will one day be my permanent sex slave/sex toy/sex object.

This music video is an example of women who look at men as sex objects.

Fun Song!

What a fun song! This was a huge hit in the late 90's.

My first time to see this music video.