More Than an Ideal Sub

I like this guy because he is not just submissive to his fiancee, he LOVES Her.

Also, he visits my blog regularly even if he's not under any obligation to do so. Take note that he hasn't asked me to be is property or to serve me since he already has a soon to be legal Owner, yet he has remained my loyal follower.

I don't like the feeling of 'using' a woman for my pleasure.  Even with trampling and facesitting.. those are my fetishes.. but they are things that I enjoy to see and experience.. when I think back on them, they are so strong in my mind and it really turns me on.. But even with that, the woman has to have an enjoyment in it.  Even with my fiancee, I don't want her to simply do it for me.. i want to grow a desire in her.. i want her to enjoy and crave the sensations of being in power.  I think that's in her, but I'm not sure how deep it is... Knowing that is in her attracts me to her even more...

I would do anything that my fiancee wanted if she enjoyed it.  I think my satisfaction comes from knowing she is using me for her pleasure. I don't like passive women, and if she was controlling or dominant in what she did.. i would enter that subspace.      I believe you definitely have power in you and your actions.  I can sense when a woman has that and you do.  I can feel it when I talk to you and you remind me of some of my most dominant tramplers  :-)   

As I always say, D/s is never about what the Domme wants. More often than not, a sub will not become submissive unless he gets what he wants or gets turned on by what the Domme does to him. But this guy, he gives in to what She wants as it makes Her happy. This guy told me a lot of things that convinced me he is a good sub and hopefully, in the future, a good husband.

And for all you sub/slave wanna-be's this guy is going to marry a Supreme Asian Domme so eat your hearts out!

Hey, you know who you are!

Artwork courtesy of  Femdom Artists

Trust and Lies

Never lie to someone who trust you. 

And never trust someone who lies to you.

Cold Asian Domme Strapon Story

This is the very first strap on I ever received as a gift from ass kisser.

Sorry about the resolution and flaws. I used a very old cam phone to take these pictures. My laptop's screen is showing everything yellow so I can't see what these pics really look like.

This strapon is black and thick. I don't think it's really a huge strapon, it's not that long but it's really thick. Or maybe I have small hands. Hahaha.

I think there's nothing more exciting that an Asian Domme wearing a strapon. When showed this to me, I put it close to my crotch, I looked like I had a semi-hard cock. He got turned on. Well, he's a slut anyway. Unfortunately, I wasn't able to insert this fully in his ass because he was tight and I was worried I might tear his muscles. It was my first time, him too.

Asian Femdom. An Asian Domme in a strapon. How exciting is that!

Sorry I haven't taken a pic of myself wearing this. Maybe next time.

I have another strapon by the way. I'll blog about it later.

He Still Loves Kissing My Ass

My former slave and I had some sort of a fight. I got upset that he had lied to me about something important. I was really upset with him but then the next day I sent him a message about how I felt and teased him he should pay for my emotional distress. He asked me how much and I gave him an amount and he agreed. Whoa!

Well he did say I should go to Thailand since I mentioned I would like to visit the place again. He knows how I enjoyed the trip and that he made me happy so I guess in his own way he wanted to make me happy again. The money he gave me was for my fare to Thailand however I decided not to go to Thailand anymore.

I decided to go to Hong Kong. Too many memories in Thailand. He did pay for my first trip to Thailand.

I know he still cares for me he just doesn't want to admit it.

Thank you ass kisser! You really know how to kiss ass literally and figuratively.

Instant Cuckoldress!

Instant Cuckoldress!	Jul 1, 2008 2:31 pm 616 Views
I just turned one of my slave's wife into a Cuckoldress without her knowing it! My slave told her if she would like to have sex with other men as long as she tells him. She loved the idea and even said to hi, "You will spend many nights at home darling while I am out."I can just imagine her laughing at him. PS. She doesn't know about her husband's lifestyle and definitely doesn't know me.

Trust

A slave was offended that I told him I still have issues with trust. I have been let down by almost all the slaves I have talked to. I have given my mobile number, my full name, and showed myself on cam to some of them but they all let me down. Can anyone blame me for being paranoid a lot?

I can't trust a slave until he comes here and shows himself to me in person. Talk is cheap.

I will give some level of trust, just enough for a slave to know that I am serious but if I don't see any direction in the "relationship," I will withdraw that trust.

Out of the hundreds and hundreds of slaves I have chatted with, only 3 have followed through. Out of the 3, I've only seen 2 and these 2 have served me real time. My very first slave and the sissy slut Italian slave have served me. The Australian pig wanted to but he was too busy but then there was a high level of trust between us.

I'm a bit sad and frustrated right now.

What Makes You One?

What makes a Domme a real Domme? What makes a slave a real slave?

A Domme isn't a Domme till she has owned or collared a slave or at least ordered a slave to do something for her. A slave isn't a slave till he has served a Domme. Being in the lifestyle for a hundred of years doesn't make you a Domme or a slave till you've experienced dominating or serving. 

I am more dominant now than I was 7 years ago. I've been in this lifestyle since 2005 (officially) but I feel I don't have a lot of experience. I want to do a lot of things but the lack of slaves here doesn't help at all. I want to know if I can be a sadist or an extreme humiliatrix. But how will I know unless I try and beat someone black and blue? I am into humiliation but I'm not sure if I can tell my slave to run around town naked. I don't mind ordering a slave to do that but I don't want him to get into trouble with the law. I'd probably get into trouble with the law too.

Yes, I feel that being in the lifestyle for 7 long years I still want a lot of experience and I want to try things I've never tried before just for me to know if I would enjoy them.

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